Don’t EVER Marry Any Man With These 10 Habits


Don’t EVER Marry Any Man With These 10 Habits The search for the perfect man is a bust. That’s because there is no “perfect”
man anywhere. As a matter of fact, if a man thinks he’s
perfect, that’s reason to avoid him. But wait, even though there is no perfect
man, there are some habits that signal a relationship that may never work, even before it begins. In this video, we’ll be sharing with you
10 habits that show a man may not be the right husband for you. If you’re new here, consider subscribing
so that you won’t miss other interesting videos like this. No. 1. Lying/Breaking Promises:
In the publication, Motivation and Consequences of Lying: A Qualitative Analysis of Everyday
Lying (2015), some participants in a lying study cited some consequences of lying as,
“…loss of trust that is very difficult to rebuild, destabilization of family relationships,
and severing of ties between the liar and the lied-to.” These are some of the consequences of lying. Lying destroys trust and what’s bad about
that? Well, good relationships survive and thrive
on trust, and that goes double for marriage. People are prone to lying occasionally, for
any of a number of reasons. However, if he blatantly lies repeatedly,
that tells you two very important things: you can’t trust him, and he doesn’t trust
or value you either. You think you can have a great marriage with
someone you don’t trust? Think again. No. 2. Utter Dependency
Does he cater to himself? This is not restricted to financial independence,
cooking, laundry, and cleaning. If he cannot do these things for himself now,
don’t expect him to start after marriage. You do not want to marry a couch potato that
generates work and doesn’t assist with anything. Marriage is a partnership, not a charity. Besides, charity reinforces Dependency Syndrome
which is the attitude and belief that a person or group cannot solve its problems without
outside help. This would cripple the marriage and leave
you with dead weight, especially as he may develop a feeling of entitlement to being
taken care of by you. No.3 Zero Ambition:
Being with a partner who has no goals or ambition would likely drain your passion and tunnel
your vision. If he is unable to maintain even his friendships
or his relationship with his boss, if he’s the kind of guy who gives up on his goals
after a minor setback, he is not the right guy to be with. If his dealings with the people around him
are hasty and he keeps cutting people off without considering the future, he can easily
cut you off one day without considering his future with you. In this line, if he has no plans for the future
and only always has get rich quick schemes, then he is not a man you should marry. No. 4
Infidelity: He cheats/cheated? To be fair, studies show that some men that
cheat in relationships do so because of problems in the relationship. This is no excuse, though. If you can’t accept a partner you know is
cheating before marriage, you won’t be able to live happily with one after marriage. Infidelity suggests a disregard for the rules
of the relationship, and when discovered in intimate relationships could lead to emotional
reactions such as increased anxiety, depression, and loneliness. Intimacy, Loneliness, and Infidelity (2015). If he cheated already, beyond the current
betrayal, you wonder why he wouldn’t do it again. That’s anxiety and stress building. So stop and reassess. Most marriages don’t recover from the discovery
of infidelity. No. 5. Closed-Mindedness:
This is a terrible trait in any person. If he is not open to new ideas and perspectives,
then he is not ready to be married. If he’s the kind of person that bashes your
beliefs and social views or shuts you down just because he doesn’t agree with your
views or you don’t agree with his views you will also see that the more time you spend
with him the more you will see that the guy is completely unwilling to open his mind to
new experiences, new perspectives, or even new things to do on those rare days off. It will suck a lot, trust me. No. 6. Self-Absorbed/Misplaced Priorities:
Selfish and narcissistic men who prioritize other things over their relationships are
the absolute worst. Both people in a relationship should prioritize
each other in the same amount or else the relationship becomes very hard to sustain
if one of you feel “less loved”. You need to be his priority always or there’s
no point to the relationship. No. 7. Uncompromising/Unaccommodating:
Has to win every argument…has to always be right. It’s kind of ridiculous at first, yeah? If he is the kind of person that has a fixed
pattern and refuses to go out of his way to show you a good time or has the “It’s
his way or the highway, no compromises,” mindset, then honestly you’ll be divorced
in a few years or even worse become an alcoholic trying to deal with life with that kind of
guy. Just don’t do it. It may not be worth it. N0. 8. Too Much Alcohol and Smokes:
Now if this is something that you are usually alright with then there is no problem. But say you are the type that is bothered
by these things and he doesn’t listen to you when you are constantly asking him to
stop; He drinks frequently, gets drunk on the weekends, smokes weed a couple of times
a day, or cigarettes and he’s becoming addicted. Keep in mind that this will eventually drive
you nuts if you stay in a relationship with such a person. On the other hand, if you are worried that
he is an addict, think of this; is he addicted to sugar or caffeine. Maybe? But does that make him an addict and impossible
to live with? Not really. It all just depends on what you can live with. Is his preference for smokes or alcohol limiting
his ability to take care of you? To show you love? To work a proper job? Is his thinking always subpar and not really
“himself” most of the time? If in the end his drinking and/or smoking
behavior makes you miserable, and that he prefers smoking in a corner or boozing instead
of spending time with you, then it’s easy to see that you can’t live with someone
like that. No. 9. Uncontrolled Anger Outbursts
Lack of control over one’s temper is a precursor to several negative traits including making
regrettable statements and decisions, which will eventually spiral out of control. In the end, it’s a steep slope towards an
abusive relationship. No. 10. Abusive:
Dr. Eileen Scott says, “There is a strong risk of future perpetration among men who
have previously perpetrated intimate partner violence and abuse.” A Brief Guide to Intimate Partner Violence
and Abuse (2015). Well, if you experience abuse at his hands
now, you’re almost certainly going to have to deal with it in marriage too. Abuse in marriage affects more than just the
woman; it affects children and society as well. So, just in case you’re a masochist yourself,
remember that it may not always be just you. According to World Report on Violence and
Health (2002), “Research suggests that physical violence in intimate relationships is often
accompanied by psychological abuse and in one-third to over one-half of cases by sexual
abuse…” In other words, abuse spells a big NO! Stomp on those brakes, ma’am. It’s time for a rethink before deeper, more
lasting damage is done. In conclusion, this isn’t to say anyone
with any of these habits is hopeless. Instead, if you are considering marriage,
they are reasons to pause, take a step back and reassess. He may not be Mr. Right…yet, and if these
habits aren’t dealt with, he may never be. Thank you very much for watching our videos. We’ll like to give you another interesting
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  1. #9 uncontrolled anger outbursts. Female. This is one of the whacky traits of todays typical female. Females dominate in borderline personality traits and this is one of them. Females are generally unstable.

  2. #10 abusive. Highly underreported female abuse of men and males is far more prevalent than you think. Guys don't want to look like nancyboys beaten by their female counterpart so they don't report it out of embarrassment. Today's females abuse males more than males abuse females and the hijacking of our judicial system coupled with the poundmetoo movement see to it.

  3. I’ve seen both your videos now on why you shouldn’t marry Women with certain habits or Men with certain habits. This should apply to both sides. Women lie too, Women can be lazy and dependent too. A man can be materialistic, men can be bossy too.

    As people you need to know the warning signs of an inevitably bad relationship yes. You should watch both videos and apply these traits to both sides. You should know what a narcissist, and what sociopath is too.

    If people would stop rushing into being married, marrying for the wrong reasons like children or simply because you’re expected to. Then we might see improvement. Romance and puppy love is not a good reason to marry someone either. Just because it ‘feels right’ or is ‘a fantasy kind of love’ does not mean it’s right!

  4. well. I don’t have issues with any of these habits. mb a little codependency issue i think. I never tasted cigarettes or alcohol. But still, never felt that i’m ready for a relationship not just marriage… 🤷‍♂️

  5. I'm watching the art work. Funny no dark skinned people are drawn until the narrator gets to physical abuse. Just an observation.

  6. Uh- oh, bro, my father is just like that, and most of cousins. Tragedy live! But, all this tips can be used for choosing friends.
    👷

  7. Yeah, you right. No. 10= abusive. Don't you think all this habbits from 1 to 9 making man abusive (especially alcohol and weed)

  8. all of those points, boils down to narcissistic behaviour i have experienced it all, i just thank God i survived it and are free of that life.

  9. what if she's a stay at home parent and he's the one bringing all the money in . by the time he pays her for her work and then pays himself for also working at home all the money's gone . on the other hand if he's already tired from a hard days work and then comes home to work more he wont be able to properly work at the job that brings in the money and will get fired . also what if he's disabled and cant work , should he have to be single for life . oh come on now .

  10. He would blame me of Infidelity always & then I cheated. Everything else is what I've put up though the years OMG. If I knew this at the age of 15. But it's not to late from horrible situations.

  11. Numbers 3 and 5 aren't all ways correct I'm a closed minded woman and my husband is also closed minded but we thankfully manage this problem and I am a women of zero ambition the only goal I had before getting married was having a family

  12. #8 depends on what side of the brain it effects him is he a mean drunk or happier drunk…mean drunks are a real piece of work for the relationship…drinking becomes more important than sex and lots of other bs…his problem made your problem….not worth being in this situation

  13. Christian peoples most of Hollywood celebs like singers
    will always cheat the good wife.
    They always drink and sing badly.
    They suffer from diseases.l hate
    that.

  14. Be the good best husband like Dwane Johnson,Chris Hemworth,
    Bradley Cooper.otherwise not.
    I m the fan of theirs.
    And l m fan of PC mam also.

  15. Enough Bullshits Here in These Video, The Author Of My Family Member (Male) Should Go And Kill Himself Because He Is A Traitor Of His Cousin (Male)-Family Member.What A Coward From Man And Narcissist. This World Made Man, You Stupid Jackass And Not Woman, Its Clear To You???. Its Man,s World From James Brown. Listen The Song You Pathetic Moron!!!

  16. Should have seen this 40 years ago……#8 should be addiction in general.
    Well hit 8 of 10 for husband. after 34 years, and his multiple physical disabilities, i am a care giver and he is someone i have to deal with….

  17. Marriage is a partnership yes! That's why I provide everything financially at home and she takes care of me as a wefe should

  18. I don't think people on the internet should be telling people what kind of traits they should be looking for in a mate.

  19. Close minded is often confused with having conservative standards. Some newly promoted/accepted ideas are immoral and wrong. Holding fast to proven rational and ethical traditional beliefs most often is the correct response.

  20. Every person has a few of these or a bit of some of the of them . It is virtually impossible to get a person who has none of these habits . So what do you suggest about that @ Success secrets

  21. My wife keeps me prisoner & interrogates me if she is not satisfied with my whereabouts. Sometimes I prefer just to go do things by myself & with myself. I miss the single life😔

  22. 1. A man with no goals he just doesn't no what he want to do in his life.
    2. A man who Lyis all the time.
    3. A man with no vision, or ambition.
    4. A man with no future plan.
    5. A man who controls everything u do especial ur money.
    6. A man who never tells u his plans.
    7. Selfish man he only cares about himself and nothing else.
    Never get married to this type of man.

  23. Anyone reading comments, take this also account:

    1. Many INTROVERTS people may have or misunderstood to have most of these habits but research shows that they turn out to be ideal life partner sometimes. MOST introverts are.
    2. Some of the habits are not habits but occasional. So do not label one or two incidents as habits.
    3. If you think closely, MANY of these habits are common and in extreme form in women more than men. So title should be ,,,, DO NOT MARRY SUCH MAN OR WOMAN. Women are not white pure in nature. Many wives will get negatively influenced by this video while they might have more such habits than their husbands.
    4.Most of these habits mentioned here are common and this video is not to be taken TOO SERIOUSLY.

    For example: We all lie at one point or another for greater good.
    We all want to sit down once (Sunday) on couch and enjoy being idle which does not make us couch potato.
    Sometimes, giving up on an ambition because it is smart does not mean zero ambition.
    Some men once in a while want to smoke or drink more than often as fun.
    Silent or introverts are misunderstood as self absorbed but they are not. they are just keen on observing.
    Many people are closed minded especially old people but they were and are lovely as couple…… yes your grand parents are.
    Some things can NEVER be compromised and should not be as well. For example,,,,, your rules, your job, your religion, your other relationships like to your parents, siblings, and friends and etc. should NEVER be compromised.
    No matter how old and strong you are………. you are going to experience ANGER OUTBRUST at least once in your life. so does that mean you as BAD person. No. It simply means you are human and can not take it anymore.
    ABUSIVE behaviour………….. yes, dump that person's arse immediately.

    SO, ARE YOU GOING TO LET A STUPID VIDEO TELL YOU THAT YOU SHOULD MARRY A MAN OR WOMAN YOU LOVED SO MUCH OR NOT?????????????????????? GOOD LUCK.

  24. I was with a woman that was exactly like this and the sad part was she was jealous because I had gotten a GED and she took it to use that document to get a job that pays.
    Oh, also smoked $200 dollars of weed a week and never had money to go to work and worked 3 jobs plus always BROKE.
    Plus she listens to her cheating ass girlfriend who has 8 kids by 5 dudes.
    I gave her the GIFT OF GOOD BYE!!!

  25. Also include the persons who are robotic under control of his parents vth out any brains or views of his own except his parent's.. this is the most dangerous quality if his parents are also the worst n insecure to the core.. Goshhhhh..

  26. My husband Kofi Asamoah is pitch perfect man for he is a man of God, the Lord has sent to me. My personal opinion.

  27. Happiness of women almost depends on how good quality of their husbands were to contribute the best of themselves….. , As human no one and nothing ever perfect so It's better to stay single and live a life with your loneliness than having an unhappy married life or ending up in getting a divorce…

  28. I'm glad I took that decision 2 years back….
    This is so true
    Please those who have doubt I'm saying again this is absolute truth.

  29. If is just few of this habit the man has the woman can have patience to c if it will stop later on, but if is all the ten no woman or lady can endure all the ten is gonna be very stressful

  30. I have spent months studying saving your partnership and discovered an awesome resource at Pavs Partner Pundit (google it if you are interested)

  31. This is Victoria Levy. I wish I would have seen this five years ago because I married this man with all ten traits! It was hell itself and I am getting a divorce. He had me fooled for a while until I realized this was and is a complete waste of my life and time.

  32. Except 8,9,10 my husband have all the seven qualities… At the time of my marriage I'm not matured enough to choose a gud man for me, nw I'm suffering, but can't do anything…..💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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