Falling In Love With A Married Man | Do’s and Don’ts

– Falling in love with a married man do’s and don’ts. (upbeat music) Hello, my name is Greta Bereisaite, dating and relationship coach for women, and for best videos, subscribe to my channel and hit the bell to be notified when I upload a new video every
Wednesday and Sunday. So ladies, I know how you feel. He is, let’s see, handsome, charming, he told you everything, what you want to hear and he’s done it so smooth that it ran straight into your heart. You felt connection, and oh my god, you feel like you have
never felt this way before. But there is just one problem, he is married. However, you had this conversation and he told you the truth, but then he said, me and my wife, we don’t get on anymore, she always nags and complains. I am with her just for the kids. She’s crazy, if I will break up with her, she might jump off the bridge and I’m too scared to do that or we just live together, we sleep in separate beds, we don’t get on, I want to leave her, I want to get a divorce soon, the chemistry is not the same, and just whatever else
that he has told you. If he was looking straight into your eyes and you were having the
vibration and connection and the physical attraction while he was telling you this information, even though you’re trying to be logical, the emotions are taking over ’cause you feel like
you’re falling for him. Ladies, let’s talk about
the do’s and don’ts, what happens when you fall
in love with a married man. Let’s start with the don’ts, the don’ts. Ladies, you know a person
who is a charming character, he’s not a charming character just to you. He is a charming character
to everyone else as well. He has worked a lot on being a seductive, charming character. The fakes that he telling you, for example, me and my wife are not sleeping in the same beds anymore, we don’t have sex, we’re staying there just for the kids, you’re so amazing, so beautiful, wow, you’re so wonderful. If I would have met you 10 years ago, I would’ve never married my wife, I would have married you on the spot. You know, ladies, this is all charms, this is all words. He has told this stuff to
the other girls before. Why? Because he is, for whichever reason, bored of his wife and is looking for a side chick for a bit of entertainment. Now, think about it logically, how will he make you into a side chick if he will be telling you the truth? If he’ll say, look, my wife does everything for us, my wife takes care of my kids, my wife is wonderful, she is so giving, she’s so caring, but I’m such a that I want to cheat on her ’cause I’m bored and I’m looking for entertainment. Would you sign up for this if he would tell you a
bare truth just like that? No, of course you would not. So what he needs to do if
he wants that entertainment, he needs to come up
with a logical strategy that women get hooked on. At the same time, though, not every single woman gets
hooked on this strategy. A lot of girls are logical and they have values and morals and we knew what’s wrong and what’s right. So he is specifically
looking for a naive, gullible and desperate one that
will fall into this trap. Ladies, men play games. They play a lot of games, especially guys who are successful and know how to sell themselves. This stuff for them actually
comes really natural ’cause that’s what we
do with our business. You need to be a charismatic character to get people to like you. So then you nail at these skills, you literally apply to the dating scene, and it works like magic. Most of the games, I literally just created
a package for sale that I’m sharing all the
games that men play on women. And you can actually get that package in my video description down below. The second don’t is, ladies, if you will try and get with a married guy, I want you to think about it. No matter what he says, if he has a family, even if there is no kids, there is still a family, her side of friends, her side of family, his side of friends, his side of family. If they have kids, you are not just getting
involved with a married man, you are getting involved
with his side of the family, her side of the family. By getting involved into his family, you are damaging and breaking the hearts, not just of wife, but of the kids as well. There is a huge picture
involved behind the marriage. And to break their whole family to get involved in it as a side chick just because you fell
in love with a fantasy, seriously, girls, you know what I mean. So now, since we looked at the don’ts, let’s look at the do’s. Let’s look at why you are finding this married man so attractive. So ladies, girls who go for guys who have girlfriends or wives, girls who let themselves to
be seduced by that person, and yes, ladies, the reason I say let yourself because in all time, you are in control of yourself. You are in control of your behavior. You may not be able to control him, but you always are in
control of your behavior. So if you let yourself to fall for him, you will fall for him. So if you are letting yourself
to fall for a taken man, it’s because somewhere deep inside, you don’t see your own value and worth. And because you don’t see
your own value and worth, you are acting desperate. Then we make our decisions
based on desperation. This is how we fail in life. This is how we make the biggest mistakes. If you are in a situation where you feel like you’re getting hooked or falling for a married man, I would really recommend you to get my ultimate self-love course, which is 70% off in the
video description below. If you’re choosing to fall
for someone who is taken, you are showing to yourself and others that you don’t
have enough of self-love. A woman who really, really loves herself, she wouldn’t even flirt with
a married guy for one second. And this is how she would set a boundary before a married guy
would never chat her up because he would see that
she’s not naive or gullible. However, when he flirts with you and you flirt with him
back for a few minutes, he gets the green light, oh, naive and gullible. Many values morals or self-respect, not much of self-love. Therefore, he gets a
green light to go for her as potentially he can make
her into a side chick. It is the key points that I want you to understand
from this video are, first, if you are
falling for a married man is you do not have enough of self-love. You do not see yourself as a queen, as a diamond. You are going for him because
in some way or the other, you’re feeling desperate. Therefore, what you need to do is learn how to love yourself first
so you don’t put yourself in such ridiculous situations in a future. The second point, ladies, people play games. Men, women, everyone plays games. In order to be manipulated by the people who play the games, you need to have all the knowledge of the games and understand it. As only when you have the knowledge and understand it, you will not let anyone to manipulate you, you will see everything
not in fantasy colors, but in clear reality colors and when you see everything how it is, everything real, this is when you will be able to make your decision on who is a cool guy and who is a guy who just plays games and tags you along. For this, as I said, you need to know their games. As only when you know it, you understand how it’s done, you know what is the right
way to respond to it. You do not get manipulated or used in life such as being a side chick. So ladies, if you liked this video, please press like. Let me know in the comments below what do you think. If you would like to know are you high value or low value woman, take my free test which is in the video description box below. Join Greta’s High Value Women’s school where we are all in the same boat learning how to be a woman of high value and bring out the best in our man. Follow me on my Instagram. My Instagram is called
@ladies_relationship_coach. And for one on one or group coaching, please book me through my website, which is called Ladies Relationship Coach, and then get in touch
with me over WhatsApp, as that is where I coach. Thank you so much for watching, ladies. Kisses from London.

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  1. have you ever been in love with a Married Man and what did you do about it? Follow the link and learn the Games that Men play on Women! Learn how to handle them and have the power in your hands https://ladiesrelationshipcoach.com/video-packages/

  2. I am so alone these days that sometimes I stand with a ladies bag outside women's washroom, so that people think that I'm waiting for my girlfriend.

  3. In this situation the ONLY do that there is is DON'T ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿพโ€โ™€๏ธ.

    Get divorced sir, go to therapy, have your rebounds with other chicks, then come back to me when you're healed… By then, I've already moved on ๐Ÿ˜‚โœŒ๐Ÿพ.

  4. If he doesn't respect his wife by cheating with you, he won't respect you neither. If you wanna have fun, just do it without thinking too much of it, or fall in love (don't let your brain TO..). I'm not married but if ever find out my future husband it's cheating on me , we are done. No negotiations. He will be aware of it from the moment we are engaged or married . I don't play, i don't lower my standards, if he chose someone over me , he don't value me. Period. No excuses.

  5. Some women go after them not because they donโ€™t love themselves but because they are selfish and sometimes feel they can break couples up

  6. Leave married men alone.
    There were a few times I was talking to married men back when I was 17/18, it just never worked.
    Karma will come to hit you back in your face.
    One day, someone you love and are crazy about will lie to you and cheat on you and make you seem insane to another woman.
    Men also do not respect women who knowingly attempt to steal them away from their wives.
    This is a double whammy.
    Dont do it, ladies.
    Have self respect.
    Let him go.
    It will never amount to a healthy relationship.

  7. what if dont know he;s married? usually married men lie to single girls outside by pretending to be single and available at first and for a certian period, untill girls hooked up and find out the truth later on then he will stop which is a bit late and torturing

  8. I went out with married man and end up marrying him but he left me for a other woman he married now i just found out that he as just got married for the fourth time and he always said he wanted to get married 7 times by the way i love your piture of paris back of your wall i love paris ๐Ÿ‘‘โ™ฅ๏ธ

  9. Some married men are the flirtest. They will be giving the eye to multipul women. Always one on the side. They need constant attention.

  10. As Esther Perel says. Why is it that both men and women break their own moral code with an affair? She says not all married men are continuous cheaters, some men have been faithful for their entire life and suddenly they are having an affair and risking everything. People have affairs both the married man and the woman to feel alive again, to find some part of themselves they have lost. The desire to find themselves overrides everything. Men cheat to stay in a marriage women chest to leave a marriage. One older woman said after years of being single she didnt want to die not knowing a passionate affair, to feel a mans embrace and passionate love. Infidelity is complex, highly complex and modern marriage doesnt work.

  11. Just when I hear these words…"I love a married man, he has children, he is engaged, he has a girlfriend " etc. it instantly causes nausea & makes me feel like I wanna vomit. To me dating or falling in love with such a man is much worse than touching shit with bare hands.

  12. Itโ€™s so selfish. And it always back fires in the end. There are so many single men on this planet. Find one of them.

  13. Married men can pursue you HARD! Donโ€™t give in…even if thier marriage crumbles, itโ€™s better that you were never involved…if heโ€™s in a bad marriage, let it fall apart. Leave him alone otherwise.

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