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  1. This is good men. Am almost 4 years in my marriage by 26th March. From the beginning I got the wisdom to connect with my hubby especially on kinda 50/50 helping each other in the house. He does more than I do in our house. Having such a mentality and humility from a man is a blessing aki. He does the cooking, laundry, changing our boy ooh God is a faithful God

  2. My husband has been the best. Ever since we met even when we were dating he used to cook, clean and he has his way around the kitchen. Actually, he is the best cook I know. Even now he goes to work and I'm at home with kids and when he comes sometimes he helps me. He cleans the house way better than I do I swear. He even helps with washing the kids. He even serves the guests at our home. In our home we help each other. There is no work for him or me.

  3. I think long time men used to belive that house chores should be done by women. Bcz women were only staying at home. But nowadays women do everything that men does. So I think it's good as a husband to help your wife sometimes when needed. But most importantly let's teach our children from young age that it's good to have gender equality. Teach your son to do house chores the same way you teach your Dota and belive me even when he grow up he will never change.

  4. Let men understand helping out in the house does not men they not men or lesser but myself i feel friends really destroy each others family

  5. My gender equality is my hubby and this too made me love him even more coz he changed this when we were dating,i remember my job was so demanding and he requested i give him the key and i would go and find a pilau waiting for me and weekends he would make breakfast and till to date we are married and he always make breakfast and dinner during the weekend and not forgetting even when i gave birth through cs he use to shower me and waking up everyday when our baby cry,i honestly don't know how I will ever repay him,he is more than i ever asked for and i times wonder is he for real? May God continue blessing him for all he does for us,i dearly love and adore him…

  6. Really intresting topic fam…marriage is fun ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ’ฏ when you are in it together, helping each other, serving each other and not having one person burdened when the other one can help. You guys encouraged us bigtime on matters taking big risks ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ‘.

  7. I found this video very helpful. Thank you for addressing that issue. Also, you are truly blessed to have each other and to have the ability understand each other on such a level. Baraka.

  8. Huhuuuu today its serious business no 'say what you wanna say to me now I wanna wake up with you in the morning'
    But anyway am greatful you brought that topic coz most of men think that we ain't supposed to be assisted.
    Mob love @the wajesus family

  9. only a handful of african men can accept to do home chores….its that sad but you can still continue speaking never know some can change

  10. gender balance muhimu ,it comes with many positive results๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜stay blessed WaJEsus family๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

  11. Wow, Milly I like your thinking capacity is very high, you talk to your husband in a very humble way, anyway you guys you are talking 100% true reality, when you work as a team marriage become fun and more happier, Men men men are we together???

  12. True, unity is always the best policy, Kabi TWA TWA ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, Kabi you are a great help to Milly, si wanaume wengi waneza osha mtoi ama kum change, you are beyond explanation and incredible, Milly u are always glowing in beauty๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

  13. Kabi I love you but what you said about Rwanda is wrong and it wasnโ€™t funny . We worked so hard to achieve the equality we have right now and we are still working had at it , we didnโ€™t achieve it coz men died coz even women died during Genocide . So your comment was wrong on a lot of levels

  14. Hahaha ati kabi tena umesema twa twa kwa gari… I rilly support this gender equality I wish my fiance was here with me asikie ati mwanaume aoshe utensils na mtoi he will forget this gwikarirwo thing as he always says

  15. Kabi and milly Leo kudos great content imeweza ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜. Pliz bring Njuguna na wakavinye Tena ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐ŸคฃI miss those moments

  16. We have come to learn that it is important as a couple to allow ourselves to function as a team beyond any ideologies. Can two walk together unless they agree? I appreciate that my spouse can help out in what i am naturally good at doing but i will not give them a hard time on a day they dont help out.

  17. I feel like when it comes to couples this issues should be discussed when you are still dating, this will help individuals know where exactly you stand. truth be told women are the most disadvantaged when it comes to roles in marriages, so women and ladies out there do not shy away from asking your fiance what his thoughts are and that way when it comes to marriage you`ll just flow with it.

  18. I think this is one of those topics that takes the wisdom of God to discuss. We can never have gender equality and it will even work against. There's a way men and women have been graced differently. I don't expect Kabi to ask Milly to carry a heavy luggage under his watch. He will automatically do it. We should certainly help each other out but we can never be equal. My take! Times change but God's Word remain unchanged

  19. My brother used to say that he will never go to kitchen or help out that hiyo job ni ya madem my mom used to talk too much especially wen we eat my brother will dumb the plate or cup I used to feel bad wen my mom talks n I told my bro if u can't change wen I cook you will not eat thanks to my dad he stood up n forced him to change n he told him in my house kila mtu anafanya kazi ukorofi utafanyia kwako๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ this days ako Sawa he does cook kuosha viombo he's so responsible

  20. I love you guys so much but I disagree with gender equality, we don't find that in the bible. But l'm for helping each other. Man will always be the head of the family according to the bible. Look for another word apart from gender equality. It does not mean that because my husband helps around the house, which he does, that I'm equal to him. According to the bible he'll always be the head of the house hold. Blessings

  21. I feel like you've talked about women empowerment not gender equality.. it's all about how the man cn help the woman not how the woman can help and complement the man

  22. This video is really informative. Thank you guys. Kwanza being a Christian couple, you've shed a really positive light on what a Christ-like marriage would look like in our generation.

  23. when i gave birth my hubby took care of me and everything in the house for 3good months bila mimi kufanya kitu only eat and sleep and breastfeed. so after a year nikamshw anisandie kupika mmm wah aliniambia nizae tena kama nataka treat ya kupikiwa tena but mimi ni nani i had to fake sick dio nipikiwe. He is my hero in many ways though

  24. Rwanda values women, seeing that we are also able to do what men can as well. It is not because of Genocide.We are humans too and capable. I am a proud Rwandan.

  25. Two important highlights iโ€™ve learnt.

    From kabi….โ€™if women are happy,men are happy tooโ€™
    From milly….โ€™if you realize your partner is good at handling finances let them handleโ€™

    I love the topic๐Ÿ‘Œ

  26. You guyz ur chemistry is just amazing!!! โค๏ธโค๏ธ Milly do you still love watermelons like u did with taji's pregnancy?

  27. Lucky are those with supportive spouses….yaani i do everything….while he is chilling na utaskia akisema ukimaliza kufua uende kwa duka ukanichukulie Pk za kuchonga๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚….ama am cooking amd you here him say kuja uniwashie mosquito coil…๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

  28. Hi guys l love this l just think that you should do what you are strong in , l remember TD jakes said that when he married his wife she didn't know how to cook and he was the cook, example your wife could be better at money management than you are, and that joke about Rwanda was in bad taste learn the history first the people that were killed were the Tustis in Rwanda, but the majority of many men and women Tutsis lived as refugees in different African, Europe, Asia, so we had many men but the difference with Rwanda is we have a President anointed to lead give credit where credit is due, take your platform seriously please don't make jokes about Genocide l choose to forgive you, by the way l was a refugee and l grew up in Kenya l didn't go through Genocide but many of our relatives did. Please do your research next time because you are influencing many people. Blessings

  29. Mi am a single mum of two, n I hv a niece nilichua akiwa 10 months na sai ako 4 yrs bt yenye nilipatana nayo kwa marriage wacha tu.c wanaume wote wazuri. Wajesus may God bless your marriage.

  30. In my household he's the Breadwinner anf I manage the home with the help of a domestic manager. However, on Sundays at times helps in feeding the kids breakfast. He serves himself if I am busy coz I work from home as a writer.

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  32. This topic is so good btw….sai hakuna ati kazi ya madem na maboy like we are all equal kazi zikuwe shared pia equally. Unity is required…umoja ni nguvu bana

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  34. My hubby is not around I mean he works outside kenya but when he is around I never do breakfast since we got married he always does that and so much more he is my hero too๐Ÿ˜

  35. i havent liked this video because am a feminist, but because a topic that has become a phemonenon has become imperative. thankyou.

  36. I have been watching your for more than a year now… When you had the TV interview most people in the comment section where saying.. what do you know about marriage you only been married for a year.. Now those people should see this video.The keynote to this issue is communication!.Thank you the Wajesus Family.๐Ÿฅฐ

  37. On the topic… Yeah dea some tigs a wife has to do but dea somtigs dat ur hubby shld also help… Wen u two r indoors… Nd dat brings so unity nd romantic.. Nd know each ada more

  38. You guys give me more reasons to believe that anything is possible maze๐Ÿ˜ญโคโคโค
    God is good sooo gooood

  39. I have watched twice.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
    Mob love favourite couple of mine ๐Ÿ˜˜
    Also to your children when giving pocket money it should be equal yes but according to their needs. A girl will need more money than a boy child because of pads and hair, etc

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