How To Dress Sharp For A Classy Bachelor Party – Men’s Clothing Advice – Man Style Tips


How To Dress Sharp For A Classy Bachelor Party
– Men’s Clothing Advice – Man Style Tips Hi! I’m Antonio Centeno, the founder of Real
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heard me say it before, it’s awesome. Do you have it? Make sure to go grab it. Okay, this is the question that came in all
the way from India. I’ve got a gentleman and he’s saying, “I’m a 27-year-old doctor from
Delhi and I’ve been recently invited to a friend of mine’s bachelor party. It’s a semi-formal
occasion where some of my friends will be wearing a blazer and a few will be in suits.
Well, I’m planning to wear a black velvet jacket that’s going to have two buttons
from Marks & Spencer. My questions are should I wear it with a pair of dark denim or grey
trousers, and do I need to wear a tie with it? Can I wear a scarf with it because it’s
going to be an outdoor event and it may be a bit cold?” He’s also got some information.
He’s 5’9″. He’s got a medium build with dark black hair and olive skin. The gentleman’s got a good question. It sounds
like he’s wanting to dress up, and he ended that question with saying, “Should I just
wear a suit?” And so, I’m going to lay out three criteria because I’m not in his shoes.
I don’t know this, but I would look at these three things if it was me and I was invited
to a bachelor party that sounds — I know when I put “bachelor party” probably in the
title, a lot of people are thinking, “Hey, throw on a t-shirt.” In the United States,
they get a little crazy sometimes. Let’s just say go watch The Hangover, a very interesting
movie. But in any case, guys, I’m not talking about
that kind of dress, although if you look at The Hangover, the guy that had the most amount
of game, how did he dress? The one that’s hanging with, I think, Jennifer Lopez now?
So that’s all I’m going to say about dressing and what we think of people. Getting back to this question, he wants to,
it sounds like, really push the envelope when it compares to everyone he’s going out with.
He’s going to be around people with traditional blazers, with suits, and he’s wanting to wear
a velvet blazer that overall sounds pretty good, except for the fact that it’s velvet,
which is a little bit more fashion forward, so these three things are what you need to
pay attention to, sir. 1. Find out how the groom is going to be dressing
and how well do you know him. At the end of the day, this is his night. This is about
him having a great time. You’re there to support him. And so, you don’t want to be showing
up and people to be thinking all night like, “Who is this?” If you don’t know him very
well, you don’t want people to be thinking like, “Who is this guy and who does he think
he is, the fashion guru?” not that men were supposedly known for not talking behind each
other’s backs, but we do it and we make quick judgments. If you’re meeting a lot of these people for
the first time, is the impression you want to be putting out there the one that you’re
going to send with the current clothing selection that you have? Not that it’s bad, but you
just need to be aware of how well do you know these people, how well do you know the gentleman
that you’re going to be going to this. I assume that since you’re invited to this party that
you know him pretty well. And so, that takes me to the second part. 2. Pay attention to what everyone else is
going to be wearing and the environment, so I mean not only the physical environment,
so where you guys are going. It sounds like most people there are going to be wearing
suits or wearing blazers, but overall, what is the feel because based off the fact that
there are going to be people there in suits, I’m going to say “no” to the denim and wear
a dark pair of odd trousers. If it’s going to be cool, grey flannel trousers,
especially charcoal or medium grey are going to look really good versus denim. Here in
the United States, you could probably get away with it, but India, I just felt that
overall my experience there is that people do make a lot of judgments based off of how
somebody looks. You’ll have a high-rise building right here
and then you’ll have slums right there. You know, having spent a little bit of time in
Delhi, it is something that you don’t — not that the denim is going to make you look like
you’re coming out of the slums here, but it is something that I think you need to respect
what everyone else is pulling off and not wear the denim because it is a very casual
look. So elevate that a bit, pay attention to your environment, and look also to the
other people. If people are going to be wearing blazers,
then I would say that a dark velvet blazer is going to be perfectly fine, assuming that
it doesn’t have any outlandish colors in it or any accents or anything like that. So
we’ve paid attention to the groom, we’ve paid attention to the environment. 3. Last, which for many people unfortunately
comes first, is who are you and what do you feel comfortable wearing. So if you feel comfortable
wearing this type of clothing, then wear it because if you’re comfortable wearing the
clothing, then a lot of these other things are going to fall over the wayside. People, they’re going to make a quick judgment
based off of what they see, but then they’re also going to immediately move on to more
important things, which is having a great time. And if you’re comfortable in this type
of clothing and you feel that even a scarf around with that velvet blazer, you feel great
like that because it’s what you normally wear, then go for it. People, they maybe know you as that’s what
you wear, but if you normally don’t wear clothing like this and you’re putting it on for the
first time, then really what you’re wearing is a costume, not clothing you’re going to
be comfortable in. So you need to beforehand wear this outfit, be comfortable in that outfit,
and then you own that outfit and you can wear it with confidence and go out there and have
a great time. If you’re not confident in that clothing,
then again, you’re wearing a costume and you’re going to be thinking about things that you
shouldn’t be thinking about because at the end of the night, you’re there to celebrate
the union of your good friend with another family and go there and have a great time
because that’s what you want to do on these nights. All of us only have so many nights
left. Make sure that this night is an enjoyable one, not one in which you’re worried about,
“Did I wear the right shoes?” This has been Antonio Centeno with Real Men
Real Style. I will see you in the next video. Bye-bye.

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Comments

  1. Exactly, If you are not totally comfortable with your wardrobe, thinking too much about it while at the party, is not worth it, the one thing i've noticed is that people who might dress properly for an occasion sometimes are not entirely themselves, try to go along with the guidelines but ultimately you are there for an special ocassion

  2. Hey Antonio,
    I have a question. What brand do you think is the best suit? People tell me armani, people say boss and the rest just random. I am 25 years old and I am looking for that sporty look. I dont want to look like a penguin.

  3. That is individual sir 🙂 personally I think that anything that looks nice on you and has good quality fabric.. I would not recommend you and by suits from cheap stores(marks & spencer, old navy etc.. type stores). For a sporty look I use Ralph lauren, I think armani and hugo boss is too classy for some occations 🙂

  4. Yeah but im not a professional. I dont know what classifies as "nice fabric". Thats why i ask for name brands to see whats the best out of them. I cant go to a random place feel the fabric and say I WANT THIS! Because it might end up not being the right one. And I dont like asking salesmen because they just want to seal the deal. I dont want to over pay for something that isnt worth it.

  5. Antonio I find your videos very useful, so thumbs up!! Like a suggestion, I would say that it would be a great ideea if you can show some pictures , for us to have a better image about the outfit. Thx

  6. You should make a video for an everyday classy dressing. Something comfortable, slim looking, and sexy looking in front of the ladies eyes. Thanks.

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