Melody “Needs to See the Work” from Martell | Love and Marriage: Huntsville | Oprah Winfrey Network

– Speaking of counseling, you
know there’s something that you said in one of your
sessions that was like– it was the phrase
that was most tweeted and everybody talked
about, where you called your mistress a peasant. I’m married. I have a beautiful wife. I know I’ve done wrong, but
what I’m going to call somebody that I was seeing on the side. I know it’s still a woman. I mean, but we did
certain things together. And she knew I was married. I mean, I know I
stepped out, but she knew I was married, too. So she owned up to
being a side chick. So any side chicks out
there, if your dude call you any name, run with it.
Forget it. [AUDIENCE GROANING] And so I don’t know. You tell me. She watches this show. And then she hears you
call her a peasant. The first thing I’d imagine she
would do is pick up the phone and call you and fuss you out. Did she call you? Have you talked to her since? No. So she’s out of the
picture completely? Of course. Melody, do you believe that? Time will tell. You know, the biggest
thing for me in all of this is the fact that we
do have children. And, you know, this is
not what they asked for. They didn’t ask to be here. They didn’t ask for
me to be their mom and him to be their father. You know what I’m saying? That part is what kind of
hurts me a lot is, you know, both of us, we grew up
in single parent homes. And that was something that
we always in the beginning wanted to give our children
something different. And for me, considering
that I have two daughters and another one on
the way, it’s kind of like I have to be able
to show them what marriage should be, and the love that
they should get as a woman, right?
Because– [APPLAUSE] Yeah. That’s it. But it also sounds like you’re
still leaving the door open. Is there anything Martell
can do to show you that he still wants you in his life? What Martell
will have to do is put the proof in the actions. I need to see the work.

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  1. He ain't gonna change. He will for a little bit but he'll fall back into another woman's arms. Been there done that, I won't be a ride or die for a cheater again, it's not worth the pain.

  2. He has shown you who he is Melody….what else do you need to leave him…an invitation?! You are so much better than Martell even w/children. Ppl coparent all the time. YOU GOT THIS….Martell will cheat again. You are showing your daughters to keep a cheater & not keep their integrity

  3. Ok so, y’all know that meme where it’s showing Viola Davis picking up her purse, rolling her eyes and walking out with the “Chiiiile (please”) look on her face? Yeah, insert THAT ONE! #MelodyWeDon’tBeleiveYou #MartellWeDon’tBeleiveYouEither

  4. Melody and Martell having their problems but in reality they only couple open about their problems and truthful. Martell get Your act together for Your Family. Y’all are a Beautiful couple and a Beautiful family. Why are the other couples against the Holts? Melody works hard and Martell does too for what they have and they are down to earth People. Martell is not the only one on the show that cheated. Tisha girl get tough and put Your Husband in check. You Grown

  5. Um, Martell, YOU KNEW YOU WERE MARRIED BEFORE SHE DID! Why do people say stupid things like that? 😒😒😒 As for Mel, any time a man can down another woman in front of you, to spare your feelings, the way he did, is a sign that he still want her and he trying to throw you off. He still talking to her. He is NEVER GOING TO CHANGE.

  6. If anyone who’s called a peasant still sleeps with or have a relationship with that same man – she deserves everything she got – maybe that’s what every man thinks of their sidechick but not brave enough to own it. What an insult

  7. Melody is going to stay because she likes the Limelight and the way she lives she's not giving up that life style. Unfortunately it's going to cost her heart in the end. I also believe as a parent you must lead by example and sometimes staying in a relationship for the kids is not always good.

  8. Freaking coward!! He went out lurking, now that he's been caught OH SHE'S A PEASANT NOW! He better be careful of his words!

  9. Sick of the Holts! They are fake and phony. Willing to destroy others marriages for sport. Marsua doesn’t see it now but his mother in law is awesome. She stood up for her daughter and her marriage. The Holts maybe rich but they are sickening. Anyone that would be on national television with their hair looking like Mel’s. She needs to see another stylist!


  11. He is a ugly looking person. 🤮
    They don't even look like a couple! 🤪
    Dude eat "shat" as what TashaK 🍷would say! 🤬

  12. Children love their parents but they never want to witness or know that their mother stayed with their cheating father. Using children as an excuse to stay is one of the worst things you can possibly do.

  13. I'm trying to get pass Martell saying the side chick is what ever a man say she is! Well dam y'all side chicks or peasants need to leave those married men alone it's 2019 stop the foolishness.

  14. Stop the craziness! They are both acting. She hasn't cried any real tears . They both still yelling team Holt.

  15. First he was, almost proudly, calling her his girlfriend! Now, to keep Melody on the hook, he's calling her a peasant and a side piece/chick 🤔😒 chiiile I can't

  16. He called a woman a peasant I don't think he want anybody to call his mother or his children or any woman in his family that

  17. He is so freakin arrogant!! It sickens me to the core! He better be glad he cheated with a "weak" one that he could get on national TV and say that about her.

  18. He’s not going to stop cheating. And for him to call that woman a peasant shows how much respect he has for women.

  19. I really hope he will change I do believe people can change if they really want to it's their marriage so only time will tell.

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  21. Two narcissistic married people who cheats. Melody will never leave I think she’s cleaning up her broom because she looks so bad.

    That man will always cheat period

  22. I learned from experience when a man show his disrespectful ways toward a side chick. He will soon show you how he truly feel about you once the marriage is over.

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