THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE GETTING MARRIED to My FILIPINA WIFE [Arab Man Confession]


Hey! What’s up guys so I’m a father
now, and… it’s a wonderful feeling because i’m,..she
doesn’t even understand what I’m saying but sometimes you just feel like she
understands but she’s not she’s just too young to understand but I would love
to pretend that she does, sometimes I talk to her and and I see her face
reaction is saying oh my gosh you got what I said and then out of sudden *baby crying and then, I was caught in a moment that I,… oh my gosh understand I said and then she
she she ruins it then I realized okay five days, she’s a week or, she’s two weeks
and I’m gonna ended up okay I am the one who is stupid because I thought she did understand OMG! Anyway, it’s amazing feeling and I’m
just sharing with you my experience I’m trying as much as I can to support my
wife and help her because it’s not easy for her at all
at all I mean there’s no man can handle the pain the woman going through after
delivery right? but I’m doing what I can is it’s not enough and no matter what
you do it’s never gonna be enough because the pain is really big huge and
will take months and months of recovery and I learned that the hard way
but at least I’m having an idea and I don’t even understand it totally but I’m
having a small idea fit my capacity of my brain even though I’m a lawyer but
being a lawyer or being smart or being whatever you think you are it’s
not gonna be enough to understand a woman’s pain, is that correct dear?
Anyway, so I’m sorry that I’m taking this video with a laptop camera and it sucks but my cellphone is dead, you see my phone is dead and why my phone is dead? why I am not prepared to record a video with my cell phone it’s because I’m always
playing songs to her to sleep so my phone started to be pretty much to amuse her,… I know that i will feel more panic the more she grows up, because now she is cute, she will be even more cuter the more grow up, but once she gets to certainly oh my god I’m having two ladies in my life and, I will never…. sorry
nothing personal and oh my god I have to be careful because I when I got married
I realized that woman brain is not work it doesn’t woman brain doesn’t work the
same way like man oh my God look as you know i’m an Arab, i’m Egyptian, so… sometimes when I say what’s on my mind
you see wrong grammar coming out so well, after marriage
I realized a woman brain, yeah? that might work and a man’s brain it doesn’t work the same when when it comes to emotional emotions and and the way that the she’s
interesting to what I’m saying okay so if you don’t think that I’m saying
something – bless you (yerhamakum Allah) bless you this you you don’t think that I’m saying
it’s not important that what she does she’s my number one fan. So, woman’s emotion is,… Well, let’s let’s put it that way actually it’s more easier for me to
my grammar woman’s emotions is the one actually control her actions but
for a man we use our brain more than our emotions did i did it say it right? I’m not even gonna pro-feeding this video I’m just upload it just out there and I let you, i will let you fix my grammar, i said grammar and not grandma
don’t look at me like this yeah? Anyway, so i thought that I share that with you I
really feel sad about the camera because it’s just, yeah it’s really bad, they say it’s HD but from a laptop perspective yeah so yeah so if I have two adult women
in my life I hope that I am NOT going to screw this up
yeah yeah stop looking at me you one young lady it’s really amazing that
this is something that I started to, my wife and I started to understand when she do this it means she is hungry or thirsty, it’s pretty much
she’s getting milk. like,.. she sometimes she do this,…… it’s just you know, it’s baby’s language. I need to make a
video about…. cause I was I was i tried to search for this stuff
no one no one actually knows no one actually yeah cuz “no one” is “one” and the verb is taking “s”,….no one actually knows or understands the baby language
but I’m sure there is a way I will try to collect as much as I can…I will try to collect information as much as I can… you supposed to be sleeping, okay cuz
mama gave you to me you’re supposed to be sleeping now you’re up anyway but
she was up from the beginning of the video so I don’t want you to say aaah it’s because of your voice she she was up don’t do this to me, you just… anyway too much information, yeah so I just share with you my experience and,.. guys if you
were married if you’re in a serious relationship take that step and get married because it’s beautiful to give this gift to your baby, that the real and stable
relationship, this can be, they say the first gift that you give to the baby is the
name but no I think the first gift to the baby is choosing the right mother
or the right woman that you are getting married with and second gift is
having this relationship under you know whoever in the Constitution that you are
following there is a mosque or a church or a temple making official relationship
to the whole world the third gift would be a name and it’s all worth it, it
doesn’t mean it’s the end of the fights because I know my wife and will always
have troubles this is what’s a relationship is all about is about
leveling out and what we call this customizing yes it will happen
it’s always ups and downs in any relationship you know even if you with
your friends with your parents with your work with your career and also with the
marriage so yeah I’m sorry that I uh I was talking too much
I’m sorry I was talking too much yeah so this is my vlog and it’s for
Alpha F and it is Egyptian and Pinay relationship and,…. thank you guys for
watching this video or the previous before and if you did not see the
previous videos you can go somewhere in my channel there’s a video tab you
just click on it it’s super awesome you think? yeah and also if you’re not
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also there is a ring next to the subscribe button that if you click on so that’s you will be getting new episodes from the Alpha F vlog so yeah
actually we’re considering to change since we’re a complete family now we can
change the name of the vlog to something else maybe The Farah Family or
something I mean I mean you can leave your comment down below and tell us what
you …what do you suggest for us for the… the last name is Farah so yeah
giving you a hint actually we just had a full conversation right now so you think
the blamp blamp means nothing it mean it means in somehow yeah all right right
peace out Salam alaikum and thank you for your support and your players I read
all your comments it was really really nice to have that much of love and
support from you guys people from all over the world Asia
Europe US Africa everyone thank you so much, you wanna thank them too? okay I sound childish. Anyway I’ll
try next time to bring my wife because I’m trying to let her as much as I can
having time to rest because she needs this more than me yeah peace out Thank you Habibi, kabayan, friend, amigo.. Thank you …Thank you .. Thank you …Thank you .. Thank you …Thank you .. Thank you …

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  1. Things I was not aware of about women and pregnancy. I am confessing that I was wrong in things I thought I knew by heart.

    I am a father to a beautiful pinoy/arab. May God guides her in her life. Amen!
    I am sharing with you our precious moments. It is quite a journey, and it is going.

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  2. You are such a good man Alpha , is it ok to see your baby girl…soon in one of your videos ?๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ..

  3. Akhiran!
    Not obvious how excited and proud you are๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.
    This is just the beginning…
    Prepare for more adventure and more descovery 4 bieng a father to a lil one.
    Allah bless you and your family ya basha!โค

  4. Your facial expressions while copying your baby crying and while talking to her made me laugh,i think you will be a cool dad and at the same time a little bit over protected to your bunch of joy๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜„๐Ÿ‘

  5. Don't worry atleast baby napping will get you close to your baby and lightly enjoy that , what you do is not a burden cause that is the part of making a family , waking up early in the morning changing diapers and feeding your baby will be you'll daily routine ๐Ÿ™‚ ,, So definitely you'll know and understand how our mother or parents took care of us while her nine months of carrying us the hardship to raise us and think of it that is the happiness and gratitude to love a woman and value them ..You look cool and hilarious while you gaze at her ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. Mabrouk ๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿป๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿป May Allah bless your daughter always… and take care my kabayan ๐Ÿ™

  7. Masha Allah Tabraka Allah Alpha f. Wishing you and your family all the best. I know your baby girl is beautiful and not to worry about your grammar its getting better as time goes by. Mabsoota ana marra shuf anta, ifham Filipino. Allah Yirhamac usrap anta.

  8. Hello Alpha, the video is okay and your voice is clear too.Alpha,have u ever come across to the vlogs of a Syrian vlogger in the Philippines the name of his channel is "The Hungry Syrian" bcoz if not pls visit his page.His page is beautiful just like yours.

  9. I like all your vlog from the very begenning. Your story about your wife filipina, im happy foR you, bcoz your so proud for her.

  10. Hi alpha f i just want to ask how you get married in philippines..because me is a catholic and my bf is a muslim and we planning to get married soon.thank you i hope you can answer my question.thank you and god bless

  11. Hi alpha f i just want to ask how you get married in philippines..because me is a catholic and my bf is a muslim and we planning to get married soon.thank you i hope you can answer my question.thank you and god bless

  12. Congratz to you to accept our kabayan filipina …i am to much laughing to you to your baby congratz to both of youfilipina wife

  13. Congrats! For both of you….thanks so much for loving our kababayan and being a good husband to her and good father as well๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

  14. Your excitement makes laughed cool dad mashallah โคโค๐ŸŒท๐ŸŒท
    Mabrok to you and your brave wife. Allah bless you.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

  15. New subbie here..cute you watching copying ur lit princess crying.you're right baby for 9 months in our tummy is a huge like big world pain to carry…one leg almost to death throne,ughhh!

  16. Dude you just did married a filipina ,you also married a beautiful wife with heart!
    Put the religious aside,Itโ€™s how you feeling,your life ,your choices!

  17. Mashalah ….. congratulations Sir, May you have a wonderful family and May God bless you ,your wife and your daughter abundantly in health and in happiness… Inshalah Yarrab….. Amen๐Ÿ™

  18. I don't understand foreigners saying oh I wish I know before I got married. What else is there to know? This is kinda like my first pregnancy. The doctor give me a book that tells everything about babies. How to care for them. I told the doctor, I am not AMERICAN. I am a Filipino and no one has to tell me how to take care of my baby. The same thing as marriage. Once your married, you are one. The word mine is change to us or ours. If you find 1peso or 100peso or 1000pesos, it's our money.

    I was married to a white American. We started him making $7.00 an hour fulltime. I was making $5.00 an hour part-time. We lived with his mom and teenage sister for a year. I got pregnant before we got married, so the insurance did not cover the bill around $5000.00. We had a use car that was leaking. My husband was alcoholic and drug addict. I didn't know when we meet in the Philippines. He had no bank account. He give his paycheck to his mom to cash it in and put it in his pocket. Oh, I didn't like that. I told him give me your paycheck and we'll open a bank account. He refused to give me his paycheck. I grabbed it from his pocket, I ripped it. He went to request for a replacement from his employer. He came home and give it to me. I ripped 2 paycheck and unplugged alarm clock twice. I told him there is no use of working if money will just goes to the bar. My husband then realized that all I want is for us to have a better life. Then we went on living in good life with 4 children. I sent a lot of money back home in the Philippines without his knowledge. We also spent a lot of money for his friends and family for celebrations and funerals. What I sent to the Philippines is nothing than what we spent for his family and friends in the US. My husband, his family and friends couldn't believed how we lived with only his income. I quit working after 2 kids. They asked me how I do it? I said I paid my bills and buy what we need in the house and what is left goes to the bank.

    I don't understand foreigners complaining their Filipino wives. My husband never complained on me. I complained on him of being alcoholic, drug addict and legal troubles on driving while intoxicated.

  19. lol I'm sorry I have to laugh. You must be so exhausted! It does show tho and I don't blame you! I just gave birth last month. I almost,almost forgot how raising a newborn is extremely difficult but at the same time so rewarding! I am definitely hanging in there. I also have a toddler! They are 18 months and 5 weeks, so not much difference.

    My husband is also Arab from Jordan. I laughed because hubby was the same. As I was taking care of my newborn, he took care of my toddler. Oh man, he has confessed to me that growing up he never thought he would be changing diapers! ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜… He said no men in Jordan does any of that "woman work". Well he is in Texas now and he has no choice. I told him you are no sperm donor. Ok that may have sounded very blunt and harsh but just because you work to provide does not make you a father. What makes a father is someone who is present! A father is someone who spends time and makes efforts for his child. For a long time, he convinced me nope not doing diaper change or rocking them to sleep and etc but guess what he's been doing that!! So after experiencing what I go through day to day as a mother he has a new appreciation for mothers. He confessed that it's a hard work! And it is very very hard. I didn't know it would be this hard as well. I forget to tell you last month my toddler was diagnosed with ear infection and I kid you not he gave my husband so much stress that he punched the wall! Yes not good. He was overwhelmed with everything, not getting sleep and the fact that my toddler was also soooo jealous of his new baby brother. My toddler was giving him temper tantrum and crying almost all day over stupid little things. He's also got him spoiled as well and days after I gave birth while I was at the hospital, they were home sleeping and my toddler fell off the bed. So my hubby panicked and had to go get him checked! Oh it was a mess! When we came home from hospital, it was very very hard. I had a c section and my baby was a little bit colicky. I was up all night and healing. I even forgot to let the nurse take out the staples from my incision! Because I was too tired that I missed to go in and have them take it out. So when I got there, the nurse didn't even touch me yet but the staple was already so deep in the stomache. Everytime I move I would have a sharp pain because it was rubbing on my skin! I was crying ๐Ÿ˜ญ..so yes it's hard being a woman! Don't forget the attitude changes between you two. It's expected after having children. We even talk about divorce but all these things happening are not grounds for divorce. It can be worked out. Everyone is just overwhelmed and exhausted so please you two should calm down first and don't make decisions while hormones are flying left and right. My hubby and I are still in progress. Marriage is hard especially with children! Just remember to communicate your feelings. Always. So you both can get an understanding of each other while getting to know each other! You will come out stronger!

    Thank you for realizing and acknowledging women. We appreciate men when they accept and apologize and learn and communicate and grow!

  20. your name is Alpha mean is strong leader. I believe your strong as a head of family , a husband and a father. Just believe in yourself and everything will be in order. Religion is not the matter. The important is ; the love , respect and mutual trust each others.

  21. congratulations bro…I feel what you really feel I was like you!take care for them both!hope to see you here in egypt..

  22. HAHAHAAHAHAHAH… YOUR ADJUSTING A MARRIED LIFE ..UP AND DOWN,, IS A GOOD .. ITS JUST A MATTER OF COMMUNICATION… BLESSYOURFAMILY..

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